
NEWSLETTER
Family office insights this week:
How the wealthy stay rational when markets go otherwise
Which generations are making the decisions in family offices
A great podcast on the challenges for UHNWIs and family offices
The age old question: how much is enough
Three family office jobs
Calm in the Chaos
How Family Offices Deal with Market Turmoil

No need to break out the Lorazepam.
What a week itโs been.
Fortunes lost, sudden violence and excessive greed. And that was just the White Lotus finale.
Reality hasnโt been far off.
Trade wars, tariffs. Stocks collapsing, soaring, collapsing again. Bonds not behaving like bonds. A week from nowโฆ anyoneโs guess.
And who knew there were so many macro-economics experts on X?
But in such turbulent times, whatโs happening inside at family offices?
Most are the opposite of โPanicansโ. Theyโve seen this all before.
Hereโs an inside look at how family offices deal with market turmoil. And why they usually sleep just fine. ๐ด
Trading volatility
Trade volume at family offices tends to be low. Theyโre playing the long game.
But that doesnโt mean paralysis during volatile times. When volatility spikes, opportunity knocks.
In the last weeks, Iโve seen family offices trading tactically. For example:
Selling short puts (on stocks they like long-term, if they get exercised, they own the company at a lower price; if not, they collect the premium and move on)
Selling covered calls (generate income on existing holding)
Trading put spreads (define downside risk while staying directional).
Volumes donโt tend to be huge, but when opportunities present themselves, rational actors can profit.
Reassessing long-term allocations
As macroeconomic forces shift, I donโt know many family offices that obsess over the portfolio's daily P&L.
They ask better strategic questions:
Is our geographic exposure aligned with future growth? - Reevaluating strategic allocations across global public markets
Are bonds the safe havens we thought? - Challenging the relevance of traditional 60/40 portfolios
Maybe Alternatives are where true diversification and uncorrelated alpha lies? - Reassessing exposure to alternatives
How sensitive are our portfolio companies to inflation, rates, and demand shocks? Stress-testing direct investments
Can we meet capital calls, rebalancing, and family needs without forced selling? - Reconfirming liquidity buffers
What can we buy today that institutional capital wonโt touch for another 6 months? - Exploring opportunistic dislocations
Corrections often create opportunity, but โ again โ only if youโre clear on what youโre trying to build.
Control what you can control. And ignore what you canโt.
That means:
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Staying liquid enough to sleep well
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Reviewing private deals for funding needs
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Updating risk models and rebalancing if needed
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Communicating clearly with the family
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Saying โnoโ to anything outside our circle of competence
And it means tuning out the noise.
If you donโt have a view on oil, gold, the Fed, next weekโs CPI or whatever, thatโs fine. Stick to the plan.
Communication with the family
When markets get choppy, family offices should be delivering clarity to the family they serve.
The media and social media can be hysterical. Itโs only natural that family members have concerns.
โ โAre we going to lose a lot of money?โ
โ โShould we move to cash?โ
โ โIs now the time to do something?โ
This is when good communication is vital.
Family offices need to be calm, transparent, and proactive.
Walk through the plan: remind the family how the portfolio is positioned and why.
Outline the liquidity buffer, where there is flexibility, and what stress tests show.
Explain the strategies the FO is not pursuing and why.
Make it clear: this is not the time for reactive decisions
Sometimes that means showing historical data on past drawdowns. Sometimes it means reassuring that no one is overexposed. Often itโs just being available.
And always, talk about risk. Not just market risk, but behavioral risk.
Family offices need to remind everyone: volatility is the price of long-term returns. Itโs not a reason to abandon the plan.
In short: families are human and when families feel uncertain, the best response isnโt prediction, itโs communication. Clear, consistent, and calm.
This isnโt our first rodeo
Established family offices have been through bubbles, busts, crises, pandemics, wars and more.
What always matters more than the event is the reaction.
If you need to sell low, thatโs a planning error, not a market one.
In short...
๐น Trade tactically to optimize existing strategies
๐ Reassess allocations: but donโt overreact
๐ฏ Control what you can: ignore what you canโt
๐ Tune out the noise: the headlines wonโt help you
๐ฃ๏ธ Communicate early, often, and clearly with the family
๐ ๏ธ Review private deals and liquidity needs
๐ฐ๏ธ Trust your patience: not your predictions
Thereโs no need for drama.
Just thoughtful, consistent, boring investing.
And thatโs what usually delivers the best long-term results.
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๐ highlights
Whoโs making the decisions in family offices.
This got people talking.
A look at some of the topics coming up.
ย ๐ผ where to work
Three notable family office job opportunities currently openโฆ
๐ what to read
Ben Horowitz doesnโt sugarcoat itโThe Hard Thing About Hard Things is a blunt pep talk from a battle-scarred founder. Itโs refreshingโฆ not your typical startup fluff; gritty, real, and full of โbeen there, nearly died doing thatโ wisdom.

๐ป what to listen to
Coming soon, we have a fascinating interview with Tamarindโs Chief Learning Office Torri Hawley. In the Tamarind Learning podcast, host Dr. Kirby Rosplock, speaks with experts on topics relevant to the ultra-high-net-worth families and family offices.
๐บ what to watch
How much money is enough?
And finallyโฆ
Thereโs a lot coming up.
Look out for a thought leadership piece on Alternative Investment Allocations. Next weekโs newsletter will look at the challenges around Family Office Accounting. And the April Family Office Jobs newsletter will hit your inboxes on Wednesday.
Mondayโs Family Office Buzz was a popular one:
1. Marc Andreessen's family office
2. Why a single family office often isn't the best solution
3. The world's richest heirs
4. How a founder turned 5,127 failures into a ยฃ13 billion empire
5. Four tips for family business longevity
Until next time, hit reply with any questions, feedback, ideas.
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