NEWSLETTER

Family office insights this week:
  • How the wealthy stay rational when markets go otherwise

  • Which generations are making the decisions in family offices

  • A great podcast on the challenges for UHNWIs and family offices

  • The age old question: how much is enough

  • Three family office jobs

Calm in the Chaos

How Family Offices Deal with Market Turmoil

No need to break out the Lorazepam.

What a week itโ€™s been.

Fortunes lost, sudden violence and excessive greed. And that was just the White Lotus finale.

Reality hasnโ€™t been far off.

Trade wars, tariffs. Stocks collapsing, soaring, collapsing again. Bonds not behaving like bonds. A week from nowโ€ฆ anyoneโ€™s guess.

And who knew there were so many macro-economics experts on X?

But in such turbulent times, whatโ€™s happening inside at family offices?

Most are the opposite of โ€œPanicansโ€. Theyโ€™ve seen this all before.

Hereโ€™s an inside look at how family offices deal with market turmoil. And why they usually sleep just fine. ๐Ÿ˜ด

Trading volatility

Trade volume at family offices tends to be low. Theyโ€™re playing the long game.

But that doesnโ€™t mean paralysis during volatile times. When volatility spikes, opportunity knocks.

In the last weeks, Iโ€™ve seen family offices trading tactically. For example:

  1. Selling short puts (on stocks they like long-term, if they get exercised, they own the company at a lower price; if not, they collect the premium and move on)

  2. Selling covered calls (generate income on existing holding)

  3. Trading put spreads (define downside risk while staying directional).

Volumes donโ€™t tend to be huge, but when opportunities present themselves, rational actors can profit.

Reassessing long-term allocations

As macroeconomic forces shift, I donโ€™t know many family offices that obsess over the portfolio's daily P&L.

They ask better strategic questions:

  • Is our geographic exposure aligned with future growth? - Reevaluating strategic allocations across global public markets

  • Are bonds the safe havens we thought? - Challenging the relevance of traditional 60/40 portfolios

  • Maybe Alternatives are where true diversification and uncorrelated alpha lies? - Reassessing exposure to alternatives

  • How sensitive are our portfolio companies to inflation, rates, and demand shocks? Stress-testing direct investments

  • Can we meet capital calls, rebalancing, and family needs without forced selling? - Reconfirming liquidity buffers

  • What can we buy today that institutional capital wonโ€™t touch for another 6 months? - Exploring opportunistic dislocations

Corrections often create opportunity, but โ€“ again โ€“ only if youโ€™re clear on what youโ€™re trying to build.

Control what you can control. And ignore what you canโ€™t.

That means:

โœ… Staying liquid enough to sleep well
โœ… Reviewing private deals for funding needs
โœ… Updating risk models and rebalancing if needed
โœ… Communicating clearly with the family
โœ… Saying โ€œnoโ€ to anything outside our circle of competence

And it means tuning out the noise.

If you donโ€™t have a view on oil, gold, the Fed, next weekโ€™s CPI or whatever, thatโ€™s fine. Stick to the plan.

Communication with the family

When markets get choppy, family offices should be delivering clarity to the family they serve.

The media and social media can be hysterical. Itโ€™s only natural that family members have concerns.

โ†’ โ€œAre we going to lose a lot of money?โ€
โ†’ โ€œShould we move to cash?โ€
โ†’ โ€œIs now the time to do something?โ€

This is when good communication is vital.

  • Family offices need to be calm, transparent, and proactive.

  • Walk through the plan: remind the family how the portfolio is positioned and why.

  • Outline the liquidity buffer, where there is flexibility, and what stress tests show.

  • Explain the strategies the FO is not pursuing and why.

  • Make it clear: this is not the time for reactive decisions

Sometimes that means showing historical data on past drawdowns. Sometimes it means reassuring that no one is overexposed. Often itโ€™s just being available.

And always, talk about risk. Not just market risk, but behavioral risk.

Family offices need to remind everyone: volatility is the price of long-term returns. Itโ€™s not a reason to abandon the plan.

In short: families are human and when families feel uncertain, the best response isnโ€™t prediction, itโ€™s communication. Clear, consistent, and calm.

This isnโ€™t our first rodeo

Established family offices have been through bubbles, busts, crises, pandemics, wars and more.

What always matters more than the event is the reaction.

If you need to sell low, thatโ€™s a planning error, not a market one.

In short...

๐Ÿ’น Trade tactically to optimize existing strategies
๐Ÿ“Š Reassess allocations: but donโ€™t overreact
๐ŸŽฏ Control what you can: ignore what you canโ€™t
๐Ÿ”Š Tune out the noise: the headlines wonโ€™t help you
๐Ÿ—ฃ๏ธ Communicate early, often, and clearly with the family
๐Ÿ› ๏ธ Review private deals and liquidity needs
๐Ÿ•ฐ๏ธ Trust your patience: not your predictions

Thereโ€™s no need for drama.

Just thoughtful, consistent, boring investing.

And thatโ€™s what usually delivers the best long-term results.

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๐• highlights

Whoโ€™s making the decisions in family offices.

This got people talking.

A look at some of the topics coming up.

ย ๐Ÿ’ผ where to work

Three notable family office job opportunities currently openโ€ฆ

๐Ÿ“š what to read

Ben Horowitz doesnโ€™t sugarcoat itโ€”The Hard Thing About Hard Things is a blunt pep talk from a battle-scarred founder. Itโ€™s refreshingโ€ฆ not your typical startup fluff; gritty, real, and full of โ€œbeen there, nearly died doing thatโ€ wisdom.

๐Ÿ“ป what to listen to

Coming soon, we have a fascinating interview with Tamarindโ€™s Chief Learning Office Torri Hawley. In the Tamarind Learning podcast, host Dr. Kirby Rosplock, speaks with experts on topics relevant to the ultra-high-net-worth families and family offices.

๐Ÿ“บ what to watch

How much money is enough?

And finallyโ€ฆ

Thereโ€™s a lot coming up.

Look out for a thought leadership piece on Alternative Investment Allocations. Next weekโ€™s newsletter will look at the challenges around Family Office Accounting. And the April Family Office Jobs newsletter will hit your inboxes on Wednesday.

Mondayโ€™s Family Office Buzz was a popular one:

1. Marc Andreessen's family office
2. Why a single family office often isn't the best solution
3. The world's richest heirs
4. How a founder turned 5,127 failures into a ยฃ13 billion empire
5. Four tips for family business longevity

Until next time, hit reply with any questions, feedback, ideas.

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